Monday, May 07, 2007

Arrange marriage? One moment please

Thanks to Annitya, landed on nice article Arrange marriage? One moment please

Tip 1: Do not get ‘talked into’ marriage
Tip 2: Going out more than once does not mean it’s a ‘Yes’
Tip 3: Go on dates that take the focus off of the topic
Tip 4: Leave the question answering for the final date
Tip 5: If you are rejected, don’t take it personally
Tip 6: If you reject the relationship, steer away from pointing out his weaknesses

for reading and thinking....

In truth, arrange marriages are more complicated than love marriages. It demands more time and emotion which the more you put in, the more you’re risking. But if all goes well, there’s nothing like arrange marriages that give you the red carpet treatment from family and relatives. A final note - before looking into a prospective partner do bear in mind that if you can have high expectations, they can too.

What is the perfect marriage? ...
Forgiveness and love for each.
Given from the loving one-
-from way up above.

Yes, Trust & Love, you are happening
Marriage, you are new beginning
Without the other you shan’t survive.
and then on, they walked hand-in hand..

3 comments:

mookuthi said...

Hey yuva
i am a a new reader to your blog and found this topic quite interesting. The tips are good.
The only difference in arrange marriage versus love marriage is you are getting to the know the person every day and every day is anew beggining. In love marriage ...you have allready reached the comfortable zone. But my friend love marriage needs equally same amount of hardwork and commitement to make it work. Just my piece of observation:)
Cheers

A said...

I agree with mookuthi; we can't compare which one needs more hardowrk and committment.

suramya said...

interesting take on arranged marriages :), but in most cases tip 2 doesn't work cause ur not allowed more than one meeting and most people don't have so much patience:),